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Cleaning, Condos, High Rise Apartments, Jimme, My Father, New York City, Office Buildings, Upper East Side, Upper West Side, Work, Working
The first job outside of 616 I ever had was working for my father Jimme. Off and on from September ’84 through the early part of July ’85, me and my older brother Darren schlepped our way between 616, Jimme’s place on South 10th Avenue, the 2 Subway and the Upper West and Upper East Side. We cleaned high-rise offices, high-rise condos, and high-rise co-ops in the process. The last of those jobs was twenty-five years ago this week. This was Jimme’s way of making us earn the money he’d been giving us (really me) since the end of ’82.
Whenever anyone asked me what Jimme did — which was really rare — I usually said, “Oh, my dad’s a carpet cleaner.” I didn’t see him as a simple janitor, although it was true that he cleaned stuff. But Jimme didn’t clean toilets or latrines or bathroom sinks and tubs. He cleaned the floors of office buildings — carpeted, wooden, or otherwise — thoroughly treating any surface he encountered with industrial cleaning machines. He cleaned high-rise co-ops and condos where the mortgage or rent payment per month was more than our rent at 616 for a year. It was an important job in his eyes, and I wasn’t going to diminish it because other folks couldn’t understand or wouldn’t have a clue as to the amount of labor involved in Jimme’s work.
I didn’t have much of an idea beyond seeing him mop a floor at Salesian High School until I started working for him on a Friday night or a Saturday or Sunday morning. This wasn’t an easy task. We saw Jimme almost everyday for the first three weeks of the summer of ’85, cleaning the carpets and floors of one high-rise after another on the Upper West Side, especially between 67th and 72nd near Broadway. We did mostly night work, in office buildings and in condos. We also had a couple of stints on the Upper East Side around 86th. We carted the industrial carpet cleaning and floor equipment for stripping, buffing, and waxing on the 2, 5, and 6 trains at three in the morning.
Jimme didn’t drink much during these weeks of withering toil and sweat. He was constantly irritated with us, though. “Got no reason to be tired, bo’,” he’d say. “Hurry up an’ dump out that water!,” Jimme would yell. And with a killer’s cold, strangled look, he’d say to us, “I dun told you how to do dis shit right, now I got to do it my gotdamn self!”
It was fascinating seeing Jimme work and work us as hard as he did. Darren didn’t complain much, but then again, he didn’t do much work either. It was up to me and Jimme, and with my dad in a perpetual state of irritation, I was getting pissed too.
“I feel sorry for the people who work for you during the day! I hope I never have to work for you again!,” I yelled over the roaring machines on several occasions.
“Shut up ya faggat!,” Jimme would yell back. Or he’d just mutter in anger, and look at me as if he were ready to stab me in the neck.
In some of the condos we’d clean, Jimme would help himself to whatever he thought wouldn’t be missed — sport coats, shoes and socks mostly. Sometimes we’d take breaks to go to this Jewish deli that used to be on 65th and Broadway/Columbus, across from the Lincoln Center. They made turkey, hot pastrami and corned beef sandwiches stuffed with meat and loaded with every ingredient you could think of — all for five dollars. That, a bag of Doritos, their blondie desserts and a sixteen-ounce carton of Hershey’s chocolate milk made the torture of working for my dad during his brief period of sobriety more bearable. Otherwise we’d tune the radio we had with us to the Mets game while we were working, broadcast by WHN, an AM country oldies station (as in ’40s and ’50s oldies) that was obviously on its last legs.
We’d work these high-rises at night, sleep during only part of the day, with siblings Maurice, Yiscoc, Sarai, and Eri at home, after all, and catch the Subway for another night of work. Until the week after the fourth of July. Jimme decided that it was now all right to have some of his Miller Beer “pep up” while we were working. Besides the usual “I make fitty million dollas a week” and “I buy an’ sell muddafuccas,” Jimme decided that a Subway car was a good place to relieve himself at two in the morning one night.
The lack of sleep, my dad’s crankiness, and now his verbal abuse and drinking while working had all caught up with me. After that week, I quit. I told Jimme, “I’m not doing this anymore. You’ll have to find someone else to drink with.” Those were good times, good times. At least when compared to living at 616.
A different “working for dad” story…
My dad and his brother ran a general story that had been in the family since the mid-1880s, in a tiny Appalachian town of no more than 700 people. A general store, that sold everything from dress patterns, to running shoes, to ground beef, was a bit of an anachronism by the 1970s. By the 1980s, it was clear that it would not survive much longer, thanks to the advent of Wal-Mart.
But my 3 brothers and I all worked for Dad from ages 14 until young adulthoods, unloading deliveries, carrying out groceries, stocking shelves, washing windows, mopping floors, mowing lawn in the summers, shoveling snow in the winters, and serving as basic go-fers. It was hard, physical labor coupled with fairly elaborate customer service. No matter how exhausted I was, I had to put a smile on my face and be able to chat with ANYONE, including the dirtiest and most rude chicken farmer who came in to shop (the remembered smell can still make me vomit).
Dad LOVED the store and his job. It was his identity, from childhood until he and his brother were forced to sell out because he was diagnosed with inoperable lung cancer (which he actually survived…and lived for 12 more years, still smoking unfiltered Camels).
But to me, it was impossibly hard physical labor. My worst moment came when, on my first day home from my freshman year at the local state college, Dad insisted I get up and get to work by 7:30 AM (He yelled up the stairs at 7 AM, “It’s time to get up, get dressed and get off of welfare [his code for college]. I’ll see you at work in half an hour!”).
That day began with me playing “catch” with Dad, who was pitching 60 lb bales of sugar from the tracker trailer for me to load onto a cart, to then pull into the store. After we got everything unloaded I was beat (and we would work until closing at 6 PM), but then I realized this was Dad’s life, at age 58. I had no desire to be playing catch with 60 lb bales of sugar at age 19, much less if I made it to age 58.
That moment served as a big spur to get the heck out of rural PA and to eventually go to graduate school…although my sojourn to Des Moines, Iowa probably wasn’t the best place for me to be as a baby dyke (but that’s a story for a later day).
I really didn’t know my dad well until I worked for him. He had a degree of “Elvis” which served him well running a small (and dying) business, and I’m glad I got to know that side of him. But it was the sheer physical demands of the job that sent me running back towards higher education as fast as I could go.